We should view getting laid as doing something mundane that's just hard to do and takes practice but has some level of genetic skill.

CombatEffective · 2014-08-25T00:22:36+00:00

I think this sentiment is already shared by a lot of us here. However, we all recognize that no matter how much will power and mental gymnastics you try to go through to convince yourself you are happy/mgtow with, you will feel greater relief if you actually completely max out your SMV and then keep approaching and attempting, lowering your standards slightly with each failed one, until you fuck some women and realize for yourself that you were not missing out on much.

Fight subconscious feelings of inadequacy and failure of critical biological imperative for life, or spend 6 months in the gym and a couple hundred dollars on improving your appearance/dress/attitude, climb the mountain, and then spend the rest of your life looking down on the world from the top. The RP path will also have significant spill over improvements in other areas of your life, you will be more respected at work and a more confident, brazen individual. You can pretend your feel good reassurances and mental gymnastics are a substitute, but there simply is not a substitute like the real thing.

Career-Criminal · 2014-08-25T00:08:10+00:00

Wait... is this a "bros before hoes" speech?

RedSunBlue · 2014-08-25T02:35:28+00:00

TL;DR: Don't judge me for being shitty with women! Let's put on our kiddie gloves and baby each other because women won't!

Fuck that. Life isn't supposed to be a 24/7 feel good fest.

OldMuckyTerrahawk · 2014-08-25T03:19:47+00:00

I have changed the flair of this post to more accurately reflect its content.

ROTHSCHILD_GOON_1913 · 2014-08-25T01:45:40+00:00

yeah pretty much. fucking/manipulating/"gaming" women is just a game like any other game. there's a barrier to entry, you can become better with research and practice, and you can compare yourself to other players to evaluate your performance.

really, pretty much all of human interaction is a "game". once you understand it for what it is, you value your relationship(s) with human society at large at a whole lot less value. sleeping with as many/most attractive women as possible is no more or less important as getting a high score on a smartphone game that you play to kill time. the only value that you get from things is the value that you decide that you're getting.

that being said, life is definitely a lot easier when you can get other people to do what you want - women included - no matter what your goals or desired values are. that's why the red pill is an extremely valuable resource to all of us men.

Meatclap · 2014-08-25T03:15:05+00:00

We need to realize we all have similar goals when it comes to women: to bed them.

That's not even close to my goal. I'm usually the one saying no, and I've said it a lot more than I've said yes, which is quite a few.

but as guys we tend to derive a lot of our self worth from how many women we've slept with or how attractive we are to women.

Again, no. This is the kind of bigoted position the feminist lie perpetuates about men, that all we are is a penis with a brain attached to it, and meat for the grinder.

As guys we tend to derive a lot of our self worth from varying things to varying degrees, which varies from man to man. A friend of mine derived his self worth primarily in his piety, my brother primarily in his money. My sense of self worth is derived in my intellectual accomplishments and personal discipline, writing a book and finishing high school early, for example.

we should not derive our self worth from external sources

Sound advice. My guess is that it's overlooking that others will derive your worth from external sources though, which is why peacocking is so important socially and professionally (sad reality of humans).

especially something as volatile and seemingly random as how many women we're able to bed. We should just start viewing getting laid/plates/ons/ltr's etc... As just another difficult thing in this life and work at what we can control

I've turned it down more than I've had it, and that's without really trying. Getting laid is not difficult, even if you have to pay for it.

If anything a large amount of our problems in western society isn't because women are playing hard to get. They are the gatekeepers to sex, they alone have full control after conception, and in case you haven't noticed a lot of women out there are convincing with a lot of men, men they are not going to marry, men they marry and dump in hypergamous impulse.

It reminds me of the direction of love. Men love women and women love children.

No, it's all non-reciprocal. Men love women and children, women and children love themselves. There are exceptions, yes, but that's the by and large of it. A child for a lot of women is a tool for personal gain, social acceptance, and a vicarious means to personal fulfillment o gratification.

I see too many guys (not on TRP but in daily life) put other guys down for having a low notch count

What? Who is putting this down? Who cares how many skanks men are banging? Why is this even a thing?

As guys we all know how hard it is out there. No need to compound things.

Again, wtf? We don't come here to neg each other, TRP is about awareness and truth. This sounds like you're describing some jockey PUA bullshit.

Title	We should view getting laid as doing something mundane that's just hard to do and takes practice but has some level of genetic skill.
Author	BecomingReborn
Upvotes	15
Comments	7
Date	August 24, 2014 11:55 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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