Okay this is another rant but one I've been thinking about for awhile now. I hope this helps everyone in their breakups or ended relationships...and so, I ask myself; what are you truly missing?

For a man to be free and to exert his will on the world, he mustn't be hindered or "held" back as they say.

I began to look at all the stupid and immature things that have occurred in my relationships. All the nonsense and "fun times" that seemed to be a complete waste and for what? So I can see her/them smile or be "happy" for a brief moment, and soon thereafter spiraling back into a self-imposed depression; I'll pass!

Truly, the moments that for me anyway that have made me happiest is when I achieved a sense of accomplishment or "overcoming" or learning something new. I look back and see how much time I wasted on Netflix, stupid movies, getting caught up in my feelings over ridiculous songs, and trying to help a soul(s) who refused to help themselves. It was truly a waste of my time. And so, as the time has come; I'm once more alone pondering my existence as a being unto himself.

I'm not saying all relationships are bad and some are actually great, it's just that my lot and personality have led me to be conscious abut my own thought processes. Does it hurt? Yes. Yet, in pain is where growth is.

So, I ask you what are you truly missing...

-Going to parties and being around her idiot friends?

-Watching her smile and deep down you know she can oust you at any second?

-Buying her useless crap?

-Sex that soon turns boring and become shackles?

-Her up's and down's which inevitably will affect you as well?

-Meeting her family whom you can't stand but tolerate?

-Or is it the cuddling and wasting precious time?

Consider that, and consider that as a man, you were put here for a purpose for a greater good. A purpose that far extends that of what any female could ever conceive of. Just some thoughts I had.