Why do some guys slut shame

kanaduhisfruityeh · 2014-07-03T20:55:42+00:00

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WAFC · 2014-07-03T21:35:12+00:00

Because some guys still believe that sluttiness should be shameful. Encouraging or condoning promiscuous behavior will only perpetuate the current decline of civilization, and, while we realize that it's a lost cause, we'd still rather fight the battle than hang our heads and concede.

2014-07-03T21:18:03+00:00

I'm not against it. I'm okay with anything consenting adults want to do without impeding other human beings. Casual sex? Fine. Incest? Go for it. Sex with robots? Where do I sign up?

I just don't want one of these sluts masquerading as a NAWALT later in life in order to try to make me her provider. I Wouldn't wish that upon any man.

RedArgonaut · 2014-07-03T22:19:24+00:00

With strangers, you just have let it go.

But with someone as close to me as my sister, if I know that her life goal is to get married and start a family, being is a slut is the exact opposite behavior compared to her goals. She's destroying her life without realizing it. When it's someone you care about, you want to help.

Algermas · 2014-07-03T20:52:46+00:00

There are multiple possibilities.

They're mad they're not included in the casual fucking.
They hope to start a family one day and see the abymal quality they have to deal with when it comes to potential wives and mothers.
They believe casual sex is harmful, usually for religious reasons.

2014-07-03T20:48:26+00:00

The post in question

kanaduhisfruityeh · 2014-07-03T21:04:41+00:00

I don't think men are the main slut-shamers. That award goes to women who are angry that sluts reduce the value of their main desired asset (sex) by giving it away too easily.

There are two types of sexually promiscuous women: (1) those who sleep with everybody except me, and (2) those who sleep with everybody including me. Of course I don't literally mean "everybody", I just mean a number of different partners.

I don't care about the first type of promiscuous woman if she doesn't bother me. But I'm not interested in having a relationship with her after she's past her prime and ready to settle down with a beta provider. As they say, "women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of commitment". If I don't get sex, I don't give relationships or commitment.

The second type of woman, who have sex with me and other men, is okay with me. I don't want a serious relationship with a woman I have to share with Tom, D!ck and Hank, but I will bang the heck out of her, and I won't slut-shame her.

SenorBananaHammock · 2014-07-03T22:04:48+00:00

Like I said in the last post about women in our lives I have a lot of women related to me and personally I would agree with not wanting my sisters to do what she is. The CC is a horrible thing, just look how we string girls along knowing we aren't ever going to give them what they want. I wouldn't want that for my sisters. In the post it sounds like she is just looking for casual sex so sure that is different but now its at the point where she is considered a slut online found through a basic Google search, how is that going to look to potential employers? I would definitely intervene as well.

whatsazipper · 2014-07-03T22:08:37+00:00

If he wants his sister to form a stable family, then he and the rest of his family are correct in shaming slutty behavior. Sluts are not mother material. It's normal for family-minded families to promote family-securing behavior, and condemn behavior that is destructive to stable family formation.

senore_wild · 2014-07-03T22:17:13+00:00

I don't prescribe to this belief, cause hey, let sluts be sluts.

It's the same idea of why people don't like rich people that didn't work for it, example of thinking is rich kids of Instagram...

Sex is currency.

No one really puts down the athletic male, the wealthy male, or any guy that worked hard for his position of status. Hours were dedicated to the gym, education, or even networking up the social echelon.

Women, are giving away value for free. Zero consequence. So I guess they get shamed for it, because really they didn't so anything but show up to the party with their pussy shaved, ready to get pumped.

Damn, I love it when they are freshly shaved ;)

Strongproudwoman · 2014-07-04T00:08:13+00:00

Sluts are fine and dandy. They slut it up and I take advantage of their decision. I would never marry a girl or get into a LTR with a slut. If all women started acting respectable I honestly would be happier and I wouldn't just limit myself to casual dating.

Remember you go after what you want.

I want to bang sluts I want a LTR with a non slut.

It is what it is.... Life isn't about playing fair.

Humankeg · 2014-07-04T03:52:36+00:00

A charming man, knowing how to bend a woman to his will, being suave, charming, sexy, and able to get laid, is an art. It's a skill. Skill's that other men (and women) find attractive and hard to do.

Women simply must sit there, look pretty, and smile. Men will approach them. No effort is made to get laid, other than walking up to a man, grabbing his crotch, and whispering in his ear (come fuck me).

Men picking up women has some sort of difficulty level associated with it, same as in a video game. Women picking up men is akin to setting the game on god mode.

Why praise someone for beating "the game" on god mode when there is another person there that is able to do it on it's hardest settings?

Title	Why do some guys slut shame
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Date	July 3, 2014 8:47 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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