I've thought of my own little system for my currently LTR in which if she gives me what I want (Sex) I give her commitment. But when she doesn't I withdraw 100% (cancel dates, hang out with bros, ignore her, emotionally closed off).

It works very well, and I'm pretty sure she picked up on what I was doing. I obviously don't complain when she rejects me I just freeze it out get distant and do my own thing. Proving i don't need her.

What do you guys think? I've been doing this for 7months she hasn't one called me out on it