There's this girl [almost 28yo] I found on Tinder. She's pretty, she's a yoga instructor among other things, we both like hardcore traveling. So we walked in a park. Then a bike ride and some kissing. Then a yoga class together. And the fourth date ended at my place, where we had lots of fun.

Afterward, she mentioned a few things, I perceive as red flags: a) She uses a Tinder Gold account. The fuck for? (she's very attractive by any standards) Why did she mention it? Shittest? How would you respond? b) She mentioned being in two LTR (over 5 years long) and not having an LTR since 2016, because "it's so hard to find the right person". She also kind of mentioned that she left a bunch of guys broken hearted. Again, how do you deflect? c) I mentioned being divorced recently (ended in February) and she sort of started pitying me. Assuming that I'm probably not over it yet (and we've just fucked like an hour ago). I told her that I'm over it, but revealed that my ex-wife was the one calling the shots (I understand that mentioning it was not wise as that's when the pitying shit test begun). Anyway a woman suddenly says something motherly, like "you poor thing". What's your response?

I quite like her and would like to enjoy her company for a little while. On the other hand, she's turning 28 and probably looking for someone to start a family with. And that might make a woman change her personality quite a bit, so I expect bullshit. I will appreciate your advice.

Thanks and cheers! Wish I had found this sub earlier in life.