Hi guys, over the past year and a half I've been slowly working on my self. Consistently working out using BWF, meditating, reading up on Game and applying it.

Naturally this increased my confidence and I've been approaching and opening women with some success. Finally I'm giving myself the chance to meet women I wouldn't have even entertained the thought of approaching 2 years ago.

Unfortunately despite all I know and have gained so far. Women can still deal a huge blow to my confidence, by simply flaking.

An example: I recently opened a HB9. It went great, she invited me back to her room. We smoked up. I escalated, got her to dance, shared mouth-to-mouth smoke,Kino etcA blind man could see that we were interested in each other. After that we agreed to hang out on a Friday.

I go back to my life, the whole week I'm pretty stoked, don't even mind when my other,comparatively less attractive prospects flake on me that week(I recognize the irony in that statement).

I don't call or text(I don't like texting as it makes me feel powerless) her the whole week until the day of the meet. When I do call her she doesn't pick up. When we did meet, its like the last meeting never happened and there is no interest anymore.

This is not the first time I've been flaked on. I recognize that anyone whose attracted to you will make sure that they spend time with you or make it easy.

Now though, I feel(sigh) like I've been flaked on one to many time that it has to be something I'm personally not doing right.

The general script of how I set up dates/meets with girls is like this; -I open them.

-Do my best to kino, e.g Hug them from the waist.

-Get them to get my number and call me so that I get theirs.

-Give them a day I'll be free and tell them that's when we meet.

-Set up multiple meets same day with other chicks.

-Contact them on the day of the meet.

-Get flaked on, 80% of the time.

So guys, does anyone have an opinion on what I'm not doing? I don't blame the women, they can do whatever, I know I'm the one who didn't create enough attraction in the first place

I know scarcity mentality is one of them but I've got to build an actual abundance of success with women before my mindset can fully shift.