I've been reading Models and it's really helped me get over anger phase. I know what I want to screen for in women.

It just seems that this process is antithetical to plate spinning and abundance mentality. I don't want shallow interactions with women as beyond sex, many girls are boring.

I'm still a virgin but far more comfortable with it than I have ever been.

Should I loosen some of my personality preferences initially to better cultivate abundance mentality and 'get in the game'?