Had 6 month LTR with hb9 on my coed sports team for which I've played two years and have friends. She also plays on the team for the past year. Age difference of 12 years between us and me slowly losing frame to her immaturity and partying ways. The way I handled this relationship poorly to date could be a red pill case study but that's another topic. So I was the dumpee but atleast didn't totally get beta bucked. What I am concerned about is moving forward and also the sports team. I've done almost a month no contact which included a two week vacation with bro time and the other weeks I ghosted the sports team. Should I: A) quit team never look back B) continue to play while treating ex like she means nothing C) try to get her to quit D) download as many how to get your ex back manuals as possible, buy new sports car, crush the gym and let this one-itis run my life

For the record I have been doing D