Hi all,

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Been in a relationship for almost two years with a girl, and I totally lost frame. But that is not the only problem. After about 8, 9 months in I was just interested in other girls, but because of the moral my father inspired in me (the guy is a true stoic), I abstained from doing anything about it. However, lately, I am just getting this incredible urge to fuck another chick. Any chick that looks decent or above although my girlfriend is a clear 8, maybe 9 for some people. Finally, I don't want to lead her on and give her any false hope, since I think she is not that bad of a person.

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Having in mind that this is my first breakup, I wanted to ask the more experienced guys the best way for me to do it. The only thing I struggle with is seeing pain and tears on other people's faces.

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Since she has gone to work a couple of months to another country and we will see each other in about three weeks, do you think I should do this sooner over the phone (text or call) or in person? Bear in mind that I am currently finishing my master's thesis and all the thinking might interfere with my result. I just want to get it over with. I don't want to be in this relationship anymore.