Hey y'all,

I'm using a throwaway account. Basically I had a long distance relationship with an older girl, I'm 18, she's 21. She always gave me shit about my age. She was distant after a month or so and I confronted her multiple times about it, she got fed up and was "under a lot of stress" due to exams and decided to break it off. Claimed she still loved me and wanted to fuck me during the summer (we're going to the same city).

From there on I never contacted her again but I would respond. One time she got angry at something silly and I ignored her for a couple of days which resulted in her getting mad and saying she doesn't want me or love me any more. We speak for about three days, constant arguing with her calling me immature because I ignored her yada yada yada.

For some reason, I apologized for being distant and I know I shouldn't have but she manipulated me in a way that made me feel guilty. Today, she approached me again and treats me differently. I call her out on it and she says she's like that, she just used to treat me differently because she had feelings for me and what not.

I simply told her to get back at me when she's back to normal. She says I'm hurting her but I hold frame and repeat what I said until she agrees. My question is, should I keep this up? Any further advice you could give on how to handle her in the future if she talks to me again? I'm certain I will not approach her and apologize.

I've thought about ignoring her completely because to be honest I had a bit of oneitis but now I don't give a shit about what she thinks and could care less if she loves me or not.

EDIT: The long distance relationship was a temporary thing, I'm moving to her city because I'm going to attend uni there and it isn't because of her. I was planning to move there way before I met her.

Thanks for reading, if you need more information don't hesitate to ask.