I have a very conflict avoidant personality in relationships. I am in an LTR of almost 2 years and I am uninterested in a romantic relationship with this person at this point in time. I have been acting distant lately in hopes that she will break it off but she seems to be in denial. Everytime I get ready to break up and hint that our relationship isn't progressing, she starts crying and then I keep putting it off. I hate breaking someone's heart. I know that the longer I wait the more it will hurt her. How do I get into that "not give a fuck mindset". I need some motivation here. She is a really nice girl, I just can't muster up any physical attraction to her. I don't want to tell her that though because surely that would fuck her up in the head. I thought about blaming the breakup on something she did a few months ago where she had froyo with her ex but claimed it was just platonic and acted like she didn't know that was a bad thing. But then I feel petty for that.