I'll start off by saying thank you try and asktrp. What I'd like advice on is how I should handle my manipulative sister, and the almost certain fact that I will be taking care of my mother until death. A little backstory on my sister she's 37 one child whom I care about much more then her. She has lied consistently to me but primarily my mom about her past relationships, financial statement, why she need help moving back home, saying she will help out but never following through, etc etc etc. She uses my mom as a scape goat when her multiple relationships fail expecting her to take her in console her and provide financial and emotional support. My mom for a long time has done what a mom does and has taken her in and givemn her everything she expected emotional and financial support, until recently. She's finally seen through my sister bullshit. This I believe is stirred on by my mom loseing her job and me taking over the house financially. Now my mom has helped care for me through collage and in life in general. I'm very grateful to her, but I don't see her being able to return to work due to her back problems age and repiratory issues. She has applied for disability and was awarded it but It was nowhere near what she made before let alone enough to live comfortably alone. Now I haven't made the best choices regarding my life and where I wanted to take it but right now I'm 27 fresh out of school supporting mom, but I can't get over the feeling that I will be stuck withy mom unless I just shovel her out the door and honestly it's fucking withy head. Not to mention the stress my sister is adding to the whole situation. Anything advice would be of help, I posted this here because trp does not sugarcoat the truth and I trust this sub more then any other.