I don't care how good you are at the game, and how much shit you know. if you will keep judging other people, you will never accept yourself fully and it will have a great impact on your social interactions and the game overall.

judging others is much more complex than you think. when you see a guy that makes fun of himself for example, and you find yourself feeling all kinds of negative feelings (like disrespect\ annoyance) towards him, because of his "silly behavior" then you will fear to appear silly next time YOU will have to take action. this is just a small example but people are judgy in general, and your mental blocks rise in number according to the level of your judgment level of the environment.

show me a person who judges others and you will show me a person who secretly judges himself. a judgemental individual it is a restricted individual.

I personally was a pussy in my high school years. I was weak. I didn't know how to protect myself. of course as many others who went through shit i became strong and now I find myself despise weak people. I developed a tendency to appear strong and tough. even an asshole of a sort, but with this comes the restriction to act because I find my Ego restricting me. I'm too afraid to appear weak\ silly\ unexperienced\ etc in case the interaction with people and especially with a woman will go wrong. and I came to the conclusion that I'll be stuck in this state as long as I'll keep judging the weaknesses of others. (mine too) I need to learn to accept this part of me also, if I want to really experience social freedom.

I hope my realization will help some of you out there who went through things.