I was out with 2 guys playing pool yesterday. They didn't know each other and this was the first time they met. After a bit I suggested we go eat some pho later. Guy 1 was down and guy 2 dosent want to because it was late.(around 1030)

So I called him a pussy in a joking way to guy 1 and some other remarks in a joking way. Halfway through the night he changes his mind and comes along.

Am I a bully or am I just over thinking this?