Hey guys so I have this situation with an old friend of mine that happened about a year or two ago and I want to know if I'm over-reacting. So this is somewhat about the last girl that I fell in love with that destroyed me prior to finding the red pill. I dated this girl for about 3 to 4 months and for whatever reason she had me falling in love with her in that short time period. Basically I became so beta that she started talking to her ex while she was with me and we eventually broke up when I found out. I was absolutely devastated, I have no idea why but this break up tore me up way worse than any of my previous 7 or 8 breakups. Fast forward about 6 months from that break up and my best friend is hanging out with her and I knew where it was going based off of me finally having common sense after getting into the redpill. I find out that they started dating and I ghosted him for about a year, I didn't call him back, didn't respond to his texts I basically soft nexted him so I wouldn't have to deal with the drama... until today. He showed up at my house unexpected and were able to talk and catch up, he obviously still thinks we should be best friends like we were before but I can't help but feel like he back stabbed me. I just wanted to know if I was being over reactive since we only dated for a short amount of time and if I should still be friends with him. He is still dating my ex by the way. My gut feeling tells me to say fuck him but I wanted to make sure I'm not being irrational.