I’m struggling because I misinterpret IOIs. I’m 19 and have been lifting for years, so I’m in reasonably good shape and notice that I get a decent amount of female attention. Last week I was at a party, and a girl gave me her phone to put my number in it (without prompting). After we flirted for a few minutes, she then proposed we should go out to brunch with her friend and my friend the next morning. I didn’t think much of it and thought it wouldn’t happen, so I wasn’t surprised when she texted us that she "overslept."

In my mind, I shouldn’t have texted her to reschedule in order to maintain frame; I am the prize, and if she’s interested, she’ll pursue me, right? I haven’t heard from her since, and I’m thinking of texting her in a few weeks and asking her out to breakfast.