For anyone who's read the book of Pook. Pook consistently talks about the fundemantal aspects of game, frame control, and plate spinning. He doesn't get into technicalities rather he explains the mindset/ approach you should have.

Pook often says the philosophies built up in your head gets in the away of being a true Juan don. He compares the player to the beta as if they're one and the same. The player might have gotten the confidence to talk to females but lacks the fundemantal purpose of it all, so he become misguided. Falls into the same traps and obstacles the beta will find. A beta can still get laid, but he's either quickly left or mistreated. The player gets laid more often but does not progress. He doesn't improve to try and fuck hotter girls or even advance his standing in any aspect. Content in life just like the beta.

Pook tells us to have fun, start to build yourself, and to not focus on the woman. This helps in so many areas of life and will naturally bring woman towards you.

Recently I've tried living by this standard and have found more joy in gaming and relationships. However, I don't feel as hungry for it anymore. I don't chase girls as much. I'd rather work on homework, go to the gym, make money, etc. I can still get sex but in terms of cold approach and pick-up I don't have the drive anymore. I've convinced myself I don't need it. I can feel satisfied with what I've got. Meeting new people is fun and all but I'm not trying to fuck any of them anymore.

Is this wrong? Is the enjoyment and fulfillment I experienced just settling? I feel more comfortable and relaxed with girls now, but less attracted and horny for them. Why spend time fucking around with sluts when there are better pursuits? Should I stick with this mindset and see the long-term results?

Thanks brothers!