An interesting interracial observation (warning: will include discussion about race)

NewThrowaway115 · 2017-11-12T20:21:54+00:00

More white guys are becoming RP aware so girls are going to Indians for their beta bucks needs?

mortalkombat55 · 2017-11-12T20:37:54+00:00

Okay I think I can share some relevant experience here. I am from India but live abroad (not in US but somewhere where our race does not have the best dating prospects compared to the local crowd).

One possible reason I can attribute this to is the fact that the average Indian Urban Male in 2017 is significantly different from the one in 2010. A lot more people care about fitness and grooming now.

Another important factor is the very slow rise of dating in India over the last 5 years. How this helped me was that being the lean as stick nerdy, poorly groomed guy I could not get much lay back home. So now whenever I have a White or Asian girl turn me down my brain goes to fuck my genes but immediately re calibrates to let me know well dude you weren't doing much better even with Indian girls.

Does that mean the prospects of Indian men have improved? I am not sure since I haven't been in the whole dating thing in the past.

Is there a negative bias? Where I live. Hell Yes. How do I know? Because I have had girls (friends) from other races clearly tell me how un-Indian I am (whatever the fuck that is) and how they usually tend to avoid Indian men. Also, I have had an easier time matching with Indian girls on online sites and picking them in clubs (Yes, I am sure it is not approach anxiety or something while approaching other races. Plus I have approached less Indian girls so...)

Do I give a fuck about the bias? Yes, It would be stupid to turn away from reality. One thing about the negative bias is that those with such a thing would usually be overt with it. Also once I get a conversation going I can often successfully nullify it because I come out to be a smart, non-threatening individual (so cold approaches and clubs don't work for me really well). Some will not be overt but I can often read it. So, I just stop wasting my time and next. There are enough girls who are not disgusted by my race. In short it is just another filter that reduces your dating pool but since I don't get stuck to the idea of one. It is enough for me. Sidenote: I have some bit of luck with a few things here and there. I do not have the heavy accent at all which helps my cause. Plus I am not really dark so I have been confused to be Mexican, Middle eastern and whatnot (where I live skin color is a big deal)

Why less new posts of people ranting about this? Okay honest confession I read tons of this shit over the last year. Because I was in that phase for a while. But I feel TRP is visited by mostly rational men so say I loose a leg what do I do. I am not going to rant about it but make the best of what I have. So, I didn't make any such posts. Though, I would like to see some posts with advice catering to South Asian men. I am adding some stuff that worked for me below.

What helped me? The regular hit the gym and other great advice on trp. Besides that it really helps to be the opposite of what you are typically stereotyped as. Example: 1. Don't be beta. Most of us are expected to act beta. 2. Do they expect you to be loud? - Don't be. 3. Get a real haircut. - For real. 4. Have a circle of non-Indians (I can't emphasize this enough). By acting how you are not supposed to it fucks the other persons mind and that really helps. One thing that really worked for me was dating and sleeping with 4-5s of my own race. It helped build my confidence and improve my skills.

PS: I am still a total noob at all this who has just got started. So please take all of the above as words of a noob blue pilled guy.

Title	An interesting interracial observation (warning: will include discussion about race)
Author	36virgins
Upvotes	2
Comments	6
Date	November 12, 2017 7:47 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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