Hey,

TLDR: Got rejected and dont have a clue what i've done wrong.

i've been reading the red pill for a now 12 months and i changed many things in my life. 20 pounds less, healthy food, more confident, more muscles.

But now i had a situation i can't analyze correct so could you please help me?

I have to start with some informations: Im studying computer science since March. There was a freshman evening with bar-hopping. There i met a funny group of guys and two girls. Evening was very cool. One of the girls always hopped between me and another guy. Cause i was a bit drunk and honest i asked her why she does this (i knew why she do it). Her answer: If you give me attention i go to you, if he gives me attention i go to him. Me: So you are a attention whore? ...

She didn't talked the rest of the evening with me of course. The days after we talked again. And i always gave her answers in frame. Last week we were drinking, a friend, she and me. At this evening she told me before that she is a half orphan (mother) and that she have trust issues. She drank too much and asked if she could sleep in my apartment cause she dont wanna puke in her shared apartment.

Of couse it was obviously that she just was feeling lonely.(When she and i was walking to my place she hugged me long and cried a bit on the way) I agreed, but didnt start something cause it was a bit cheap.

The Day after she leaved and we talked little the next days. Today we met for watching a movie together. Today i thought if she is still interested i would start something. But nothing happens and i tried to push the converstation in the direction so i could sleep at her place. But also nothing.

So i walked home. Im not feeling shitty right now but i want to understand why this didnt worked for me?

If you need more information please post.