Hello TRP. I am glad I found this movement because i've been feeling/acting/thinking the things i see in here for a long time. women seem to feel entitled to be brutal, callous, selfish, etc. to guys like me... The Nice Guy. I was raised under that great lie and have suffered immensely for it. I'm 31, still single, and honestly considering calling it quits in general. I've been thinking this for a long time, and yet i keep coming back to my base needs and desires. I don't want to end up like those crazy old bitter men i see around. yet negative experiences, exceptional ones, keep occurring to me. the last girl i dated i had known for a long time, was super pretty, very nice.... and turned out to have still been married the whole time. i knew she had been, and thought she WAS, but no longer... turns out she was just separated from him, living on her own, and hiding her ring. i honestly never knew what her last name was until we started dating. i figured out what had happened after she hadn't been responding to my texts/calls/etc for a bit. her facebook changed- new last name, a guy all of a sudden. well, that's her "ex-husband" or so i thought. this has been the norm for me really. lots of lying from them. i read TRP a lot, watch MGTOW stuff... and i get a lot of good information. but at the same time i can't help but see a losing situation for me at every turn. honestly, is it all just fucked? that's the inescapable feeling i keep coming back to. pitfalls everywhere. lies at every turn. i don't know what to think.