Lately, I've been going to clubs trying to approach women yet I can't seem to overpower this cliff even when I noticed her eyeing me or even when I was approached by one in the club offering me to dance with her and lending out her hands for me I simply froze and didn't do anything. I feel this is the big obstacle that I have to surpass right now. with women I already know or when the approach is forced for example at work I can act normally without being anxious in any way.