Recently I was listening to a lot of Patrice O'Neal's stuff on YouTube. He talks about how when he approaches a girl he'll say something insulting and then when they get mad he'll just be calm and not react.

I goes like this:

  1. You approach a girl and you give an insult that sounds like it could be a compliment. For example, "Does it makes sense to you that you're dressed this good yet you look like you don't have a man in your life to tell you that your hair/make-up's not done well"
  2. Wait for her brain to process that, and get mad. Your blue pill brain might think that you could get slapped, yelled at in front of everyone or have wine poured on your face. This will rarely be the case since she's used to the occasional creepy offensive beta that approaches her or comments on one of her IG post every once in a while.
  3. Clearly demonstrate that you're calm and don't give a fuck if she's mad or not - in fact, you don't give a fuck if she rejects you or not.

You making her mad shows you can control her, you have stronger frame. her getting mad shows she has excess emotion/passion.

Does anyone use this approach or a similar approach based on this principle? If so, How well does it work?... Any Examples you might have?

Anything you'd like to add, remove, clarify, discuss?