Are LTR's bad?

[deleted] · 2016-04-04T19:05:58+00:00

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abdada · 2016-04-04T18:00:36+00:00

I've always had LTRs in my nearly 3 decades of dating and plating. All of my LTRs in the past 15 years started out as plates who proved their value.

My current LTR started out as a plate 6 years ago and she was aware of my then-current LTR as well as the one that followed that one. She kept herself pretty, took care of my needs as I presented them, and never shit tested me. She was upgraded to an LTR when my previous one was ready for kids and I wasn't.

She's also aware that if she fails me, I won't have any problem replacing her. It excites her that she continuously re-wins my commitment and affection, rather than having it handed to her just because she looks good in a bikini.

crescent2612 · 2016-04-04T17:58:10+00:00

You have to be ready for the challenges as they come. You have to know when to call it quits. You have to be able to know when someone is bad for you and cut the cord before it fucks up your life. The end goal of all LTRs is basically commitment, marriage, living together, children, and loss of independence.

Relationships are fine but you have to know how to manage your resources including time, money, habits, hobbies etc.

It's on you to make sure your in a good one. For instance don't start dating and Spend years with the first girl you meet. Take your time and find someone you wouldn't mind being bored of for the rest of your life.

Title	Are LTR's bad?
Author	austuhn
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	April 4, 2016 5:51 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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