As a genuinely nerdy guy, how can I avoid the negative stereotypes associated with myself?

2019-12-23T01:28:25+00:00

Be hot.

That's it.

You ever get the oneitis for a chick and your infatuation glosses over all her imperfections? Like her fucked teeth and boy face aren't fucked teeth and boy face theyre "I love you cute snaggle tooth and one_of_the_boys vibe"

Same with women. If she thinks you're the next incarnation of Genghis Cock, whatever you do she'll lap up and love cuz she associates it with her feelings for you.

Dig?

Thouwotmate · 2019-12-23T00:34:50+00:00

Go for some contrast, for context I'm a short Indian guy who works in IT - used to be fat with curly nerd hair, but that fell out a couple years ago and I now shave my head, got some tattoos, started lifting and widening my social circle people literally treat me completely differently - what you do to your appearance can make a difference, but I think the psychological changes that followed the physical was the real change in me

fannyfire · 2019-12-23T02:22:28+00:00

Work on your posture. Stand tall like a confident man.

madfrombrad · 2019-12-23T03:30:23+00:00

Dress like a cool guy

Wear nice sneakers and sport nice high quality brands.

Find someone cooler than you and borrow from their style

jokezterz · 2019-12-23T09:03:03+00:00

Hey man, we are of the same type. Welcome to the boat.

Lift and be fit. Strive for big arms and a sixpack.
Now after you have big arms and a sixpack get some tight shirts showing off your gains. Bitches like to watch strong fit men.
Dont know what clothes to buy, spend time with alpha males and copy their clothes.
Spend time with alpha males and observe what they are doing. Then copy it and apply RP guides.
IDGAF mode. Like a girl, approach her and talk to her. Confidence + fit body helps.
When talking to a woman, be aloof and friendly but not clingy.
You already have a good status, bitches talk about you behind their backs "Damn he works in IT, he must earn a lot".
Have abundance mentality. Chicks will feel the aura.
Walk with confidence, straight back, chin up. I like to think like i'm wearing a cape and im the king of fucking Fuckville.

If you are still not getting IOI and success with women then you either are not following these rules, you lack confidence or your face is deformed (this is one of the rules that kind of requires you to do surgery).

pyth0ns · 2019-12-23T14:57:35+00:00

Superman was jacked...
Captain America, became jacked...
Majority of the anime characters you watch, jacked...

Hope you see the pattern ;)

Psychological_Radish · 2019-12-23T15:36:30+00:00

I'm pretty similar to you in many ways. Just another douchebag with a boring computer job and mostly intellectual hobbies. I've become pretty good at bullshitting my way through the cubical job part and making it sound like something sexy and exciting. It really doesn't matter. All of that shit is the Beta Bucks side of hypergamy.

I didn't get into lifting for my health. I got into lifting because I wanted to be arousing based on Looks while I continue working on building my life. Girls want to fuck me for my physical appeal, and all the rest of it is just there to fill a basic conversation before we get to what we both want.

If you got looks, good Game, and a life that you are excited about, girls will fall in love with you.

HurricaneHugues · 2019-12-24T00:17:34+00:00

Don't put yourself in a box

RPNorvell · 2019-12-22T21:56:44+00:00

You don't. If you aren't attractive to women or other men, then you're simply unattractive. It's up to you how you deal with that fact.

Title	As a genuinely nerdy guy, how can I avoid the negative stereotypes associated with myself?
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Date	December 22, 2019 9:54 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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