So me ( Male) and my Ex (Female) broke up about 3 weeks ago after dating for 3 months. I contacted her and after some small talk and I asked if she wanted to hang out sometime. She replied by saying "hanging out in what context?". I decided to be direct and said "to be honest I'm just trying to hook up". She then replied saying no and how she respects herself more then that and saying how she feels bad for me. Am I in the wrong for being direct?