What advice do you guys have for people with aspergers to become better with women?

I have searched for this, and the general advice have not been actionable.

About me: 23M. Kissless, Virgin.100k/year. Workout out 2/day, 6 per week. At 18% bf from around 27%. Lot more to go, but I find women starting at me multiples times a day, so physical attraction doesn't seem to be the issue. Earlier I had moral hangups on trying to become better with women. I changed and now I find morality and virtue from the things I have set for my life, and the small actions I make towards them.

I think there might be some hidden bitterness for not being good with women. But overall, I don't need a women as an emotional support. I had an onetis recently, and my heart "sinks" when I see her. She seemed to have aspergers, so I though, I might be able to find someone who can understand the real me, without any fake/pretending. But the things she values are not the traits that I have. She is mostly done.

I am not sure if there is some deep emotional need I am not aware of, but it does not come up day to day. Moreover, I value self sufficiency a lot. I want my own mind to be source of emotional support, nothing external. Apologies, the point being I don't have any use for women, outside sex.

I went on a rant there, but I wanted to give some context to my thought patterns.

What actionable steps can I take to get layed?

I don't have a lot of approach anxiety. My issue is that, I don't have a lot in common with most people. So I am not sure what I say after the first few opening sentences.

My mind likes rigid instructions. I can generalize if I get a template, but I don't have a template. How do I drive the interaction from beginning to something sexual in nature. If someone can give me a flow of how they talk to women, it would be very helpful.

Can someone explain how to do kino?

What are the steps, is there some step by step guide on getting the girl to my apartment.

Please don't be vague, there is a lot of implicit information and steps in human interaction, I don't pick up on most of them. So details about every tiny thing you do would be very helpful. I

Is there someone who has Aspergers, who is good with women, point me at steps they have taken? Any books/ resources etc.

I do go to bars and approach women, but since I don't know what to do after the start of the conversation, I am stuck.