I have to use a throwaway because people irl know my reddit.

I consider myself a pretty good looking guy. I play a sport in college, I have an athletic build. I work out constantly, and I’m 6’4.

I’ve never had a problem swinging plates around. I typically meet woman using tinder because I feel the most confident on there. But recently within the past month I haven’t been getting any action since I’m back home from school. I have a reputation around my area that I get with a lot of girls. I live up to the reputation as well and always make a witty comment whenever it’s brought up.

Before I came back home for break I was hooking up with a girl but she wouldn’t let me smash because she wanted a relationship. I told her that wasn’t my intentions and wish her luck and did a hard next. I didn’t bother getting with a girl for a few weeks as I’ve been enjoying spending time with family and friends from hs since I don’t see them that often.

On New Year’s Eve I went out and was able to get with two girls but I decided the first was way to drunk and the second one was as well.

The next day I decided I wanted some action and hit a girl up from tinder. Went to the movies with her and then I was hooking up with her in my car and we’re doing foreplay for a little bit then I tell her I wanted to fuck her and she about a minute go by and says “I should probably be getting home my parents are wondering where I’m at” the girl hadn’t looked at her phone for a while.

Then last night as well I made plans to go out during the day and go to the beach with another girl off tinder and she bails while I’m at the gym as I’m on my way to go get ready and she’s saying she has errands to run but she posted a picture on her sc of her at the beach.

Am I missing something obvious or am I just having extremely bad luck? I haven’t really struggled before and I know this is the best place to ask.

Tl:Dr Girl wanted relationship, Nexted them. New Year’s Eve girls two girls are way to drunk to take back home. Girl says her parents need her home during foreplay. Another girl bails and still goes to the place as planned. Bad luck or doing something wrong?