No I'm not a bar tender. I'm looking for advice on running Game on a bar tender. I know all the signs and I've been staying aloof and indifferent while DHVing my ass off at this venue for the last two weeks. Preselection ( she saw me leave with a hot girl), I'm opening sets, talking with tons of people, dancing, having a good time at a seasonal summer hot spot. Now this Giri is like a solid 8.5, a 9.5 by my preferences. She's sending IOIs but she's always busy. Should I be direct? Should I wait to meet her on the street (she did ride by on her bike while I was walking up the street with a friend and waved)? I need to isolate and escalate! What's the best approach?