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[–]Guillz1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Did she give you any time frame to reschedule? If not, soft next her, maybe hit her up in a week or more and try again if youre feeling like it, otherwise, next her and go do your thing mate.
Youl be better off investing the time in your hobby and potentially getting an 8 in bed rather than all that effort for some random 7.5
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[–]Guillz3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
You can mark as Unread if you go into the Messages thingy on FB
Now go and report back
Youre overthining this way too much and giving too many fucks
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[–]Guillz1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Thats not bad
Message her back whenever you want, setup another time, if she flakes again, next her
[–]Guillz1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Dont try to be busy, if you are busy, take care of your shit, if you feel like answering today, do it, if you wanna do it later, do so.
Being alpha is just that, do what you want
Remember that the longer you wait, the more the attraction dies down.
Just ask her, ''How is your week?'' , pick a day that works and just radio silence til then, if shes at all interested, shel contact you to confirm
[–]Guillz1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yea sure, a date is a date, im sure shel meet you wherever.
Some people dont like that line, but i saw it earlier and its efective, makes her not be able to lie to you later on, and avoids that whole ''meet me xday'' ''oh but i have work that day'' type of interactions, and also enables you to be assertive about when to meet, taking into consideration when shes free.
best of luck
[–]LifeMedic1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Go do whatever the fuck it is without her. Then post on your facebook (f* social media) that you had a great time (if you actually did) and you're looking forward to your next visit/trip to do whatever the fuck it is.
She'll respond "oh you didn't wait for me" or some bullshit. Tell her you plan on going (insert next planned date) and she's welcome to join if she's available.
This tells her that 1. Her opinion does not affect your ability nor control your actions. 2. Leaves you an opening to have her join you without any change in frame. 3. Leaves her a soft out.
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