I understand that women hate betas. I understand that all women want alphas.

But in my recent dealings with various women, it seems as if they are almost PUSHING me to be better. My ideas and thoughts are not met with resistance, but encouragement. And those who do say no, turn right around and do the things I wanted done in the first place, then acknowledge that it was me who initiated the request.

It boggles my mind. I don't understand. It's almost like they want me to succeed. And to my understanding, I thought personal growth was frowned upon by society, and especially women. Is it because they are invested in me? But how invested must women be to do this?