beta person here, how do i not be beta

oldredder · 2015-12-28T10:16:34+00:00

Beta is instinct. If you have a good aptitude for acting you can learn to act like an alpha. It will never be instinct. You're taking a role on, a made-up character.

The real key about alpha is the desire/need, the instinct and enjoyment of leading, of being in charge, of being the decider. Conflict is necessary and totally OK for this although seeking conflict in and of itself has no value if it confers no dominance/control of valuable assets, be it the situation or people who are assets. All of this is instinctual to guide the alpha in deciding what people and/or situations are of high value with almost no time required to evaluate it.

It's not confidence that's required, actually. It may appear to be confidence but it's really ability, proven ability, and sensing others are in the way and so using persuasion and/or force as needed (and culturally accepted) to put others in line to get your way.

You can learn to act. No one can learn to be alpha who isn't born that way. It's how your brain is wired.

Seviorum · 2015-12-28T11:24:43+00:00

To start, you are in the right place. Go to r/theredpill and read everything from the side panel, read every link and book suggested. It takes time and practice. Same as learning a new subject. Learn and go out practice in the real world eventually it will become your second nature. It's all in you. No single post can be so profound to tell you everything you need to know, because in fact it all goes way deeper than voice and body language. It's a life long journey. There isnt an universal strategy that fits all. Read on and extract what works for you best.

Title	beta person here, how do i not be beta
Author	MrPillowTheGreat
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Date	December 28, 2015 10:02 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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