background on me: 20 years old, live in CA. Currently in a long term relationship of about 6 1/2 months. Healthy relationship apart from some small fights here and there. I am no where near beta, but am not an alpha either. Since reading trp I have achieved a lot. But somewhere along the transition from beta to alpha i met her, and since then we have dated. Extremely happy in the relationship but I feel like I need it to end asap. Constant reminders that love doesnt exist and that she doesnt really love me all over trp constantly push me to ending things with her although I just cant seem to do it (beta I know).

So heres the issue. Her prom is coming up. followed by a concert of one of my favorite artists(she bought tickets for my birthday) the next weekend

long story short: I just landed the job I wanted and have been fighting for, but if i accept it I will have to work both nights (of prom and the concert). Today I told her and she was devastated.

So i can either A. end the relationship and take the job or B. decline the job and take her to prom and to the concert like we had always planned since march (and then allow the relationship to crash and burn on its own)

Need advice.