Hey I've been seeing a plate for a month or so, potential LTR. She's cute and fun and doesn't shit test excessively. The other night she was acting strange at my place and refused sex. My plan was to go no contact and wait for her to initiate again, however Facebook reminded me it was her birthday toady. My question is should I continue no contact or should I message saying happy birthday but make no attempt to arrange a get together.

Thanks in advance!!