Brahs, help me get some perspective please

Tiway22 · 2017-01-16T08:06:09+00:00

Where did you get the idea that you need to rough yourself up to get a cool chick? And what does that even mean?

You seem like someone who is a little too anxious and a little too serious.

Try to lighten up a bit and work on your confidence. It doesn't matter what happened with your ex or any other girl, future girls will judge you by how you act NOW.

So be the fun, confident guy that they want.

oldredder · 2017-01-16T08:25:04+00:00

As it is I don't date anymore. Dating is for chumps. Women exploit dating to get men to spend more on them. No need. You can lay them more without dating.

I think the chances of meeting someone who isn't going to be toxic

Yup. Most women are raised to be toxic in North America. That's how it is. They are vampires that suck the life out of anyone and ruin their own lives.

aren't going to bring thaaaaat much to my life, so effort:reward I'm pretty cognizant of.

They bring mild entertainment and sex. That's it. Almost none of them ever will bring stability or add to your wealth, intellect or status.

Drakonlord · 2017-01-16T16:52:44+00:00

Maybe lose the glasses and get a new haircut. You look a little emo/nerdy which most girls wont be into.

MrMacMac · 2017-01-16T08:05:25+00:00

Perspective: You get what you deserve, so if you haven't had the things you want, you haven't deserved them. But you can stop moping and do something about it.

Start with this Stop telling yourself you're "Crazy Ambitious" while settling for being "Not Terrible" at the things you use to describe yourself.

If you're a musician, Be a GOOD one. Take some professional guitar/vox lessons or at the very least get some online resources to improve. Google/Youtube are your friends.

Change the landscape. It looks like the people around you are just people around you. Find better people. Individuals who challenge you and inspire you to be better. Do that by exploring different social circles, until you find one that better suits your interests & values.

johnsonsson · 2017-01-16T15:49:31+00:00

hey man cut out your face on 2nd pic. no need for that

Title	Brahs, help me get some perspective please
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Date	January 16, 2017 7:27 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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