Can you successfully bring a 3rd 'extra' into bed with a jealous LTR who is, like many women, "bi-curious"? If so, how?

motivatedcat · 2015-09-21T14:17:45+00:00

Yes, it's possible, I have done it with a jealous and possessive woman.

You gotta be 100% on point in bed to the point that she wants to brag to her friends about you.

First time, I finished fucking her, I told her " so... when are we inviting one of your cute friends", she playfully punched me and laughed. The seed was planted. Took a couple of months and she eventually started talking about it during sex.

Started watching porn with her then eventually start watching threesome porn.

Introduce roleplaying, have her imagine she is another women your having sex with and she's watching fuck her. As long as the orgasms come stronger and stronger then you are on your way.

Once she understood how bringing other girls into bed was amazing and did not threaten our relationship then it was free game.

This is how I adapted a monogamist relationship to an open relationship with girls.

Your best best is to frame your LTR in that direction since the beginning.

Note: I took this girl's virginity so there was a gradual and slower ease into it.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2015-09-22T09:58:42+00:00

You need to be totally DOMINANT and maintain solid steel frame.
W/R/T LTRs you have to provide enough reassurance to her that she isn't going to lose her place with you if you get some strange. This is basic Ev-Psych.

For men, the act of sex with another person by their partner is worse than an emotional affair; for women, this is reversed. Why? B/C the woman KNOWS the baby is hers; the man must have FAITH.

Title	Can you successfully bring a 3rd 'extra' into bed with a jealous LTR who is, like many women, "bi-curious"? If so, how?
Author	peacewhale
Upvotes	10
Comments	4
Date	September 21, 2015 12:52 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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