I have an amazing relationship with a solid ten, I lead, i have the final say, we have great sex all the time, she is submissive, loving, paid for our first date, isn't entitled, likes TRP content.

Since we moved into our apartment, very small things are happening that may be red flags, or maybe I'm overthinking?

TELLING me what she is going to do with the apartment how she is going to decorate it / What she is going to do. Telling me to not spend money on certain things. Today has had an epiphany about a sudden change in a career she has been in for seven years. Bear in mind that she has moved city to live with me , but i still feel like she has gained some sort of power by living with me. thoughts?