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Cold Opening For Facebook?

2015-12-30T03:05:48+00:00

I've looked for an answer to this question but I'm either too new or I'm just plain missing it if it's there at all. If I wanted to message...

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December 30, 2015

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Title	Cold Opening For Facebook?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	2
Comments	9
Date	December 30, 2015 3:05 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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Talk to her in person or send her a text, Facebook is a place where she gets validated 24/7 365, no matter how flawless your opener is, even though there's no such thing, it's an uphill battle, unless your SMV is crazy high compared to her's and your social media presence is admirable to say the least.

That's assuming you're not just creeping her Facebook page without actually knowing her, in which case I apologize, but realistically the odds are really really against you, unless, again, your SMV is high enough.

Now, just for the sake of making my point, which is not that you shouldn't talk to this girl, because it's only failure if you don't learn from it right? Let's say you actually pull it off and you're able to spark some interest in her, ~~honest validation free interest~~ honest interest, then she has access to pretty much everything you've uploaded/shared on your Facebook account, which for most people that still have one, it's everything.

Now she has access to plenty of information about you, which would make things harder for you in a convo, as, IMO, one of the resources you control in a 1 on 1 convo with a woman is said information.

Now, why would I say that you already fucked up? Not because of the direct action of wanting to talk to her via Facebook, actual because of what this action sort of implies, and I may be off here so if I am I apologize. What your actions imply is that your abundance mentality is non existent, because why in the hell would you be chasing a woman on Facebook when you could be gaming thousands in person? Shits and giggles? Don't think so, if you have the time and confidence to mess around with a lost cause and you have abundance, you just wouldn't be asking for an opener, which is pretty much a question that falls into the "read the side bar" category, no offense.

TL;DR, no abundance, don't be a pussy and go talk to women IRL.