My SMV is rather high. I can get ONS very easily when I go out. That's the extent of my sex life because I'm too busy to commit any energy towards spinning plates or LTR.

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Went out with some friends during the day. Gave a server my number. She was very flattered and was about to give me her number before she realized the paper had mine. She texted me the next day late at night saying "hey it's so and so, sorry I didn't hit you up earlier got busy". I hit her up 2 days after that saying "hey im free this day lets link up". Radio silence. Day for meeting up came and went with no a peep to be heard.

I'm paraphrasing, but from that interaction these are my thoughts. She was flattered, interested, followed up... and then my text was too strong? She's either intimidated by my SMV and doesn't want to be pumped and dumped ( but then why text me?) or she's just not interested (then why text me).

It's what she does not says that matters.
I don't usually text women, I usually bang and never talk to them. From my understanding texting is for logistics not for building attraction.

What do I take away from this scenario to have a more fulfilling interaction in the future?