Confusion game?

Libertine_Hero · 2014-08-02T12:06:51+00:00

This sounds dangerous. By not being completely open about what you want you risk being friendzoned. This is how 90% of average beta dudes act, then they get pissed off when the love of their life thinks that they are "just friends". I find that being openly sexual is far more effective, plus it makes it look like you don't give a shit about social expectations and you can afford to risk rejection. By playing it safe with her and not quite letting her know that you are (sexually) interested in her, you're just making yourself weak. This is the express route to becoming a frustrated orbiter.

Make dirty jokes, tell her you would fuck her, and generally don't give so much of a shit about what she thinks of you. You're definitely correct about escalating on the date, I'm presuming this is only the first of second time you've met her face to face, but if it isn't and you've been acting beta with her before then it will be much harder.

Take charge and let her know what you want. I'm not saying you can't be subtle about it, but don't be too subtle!

DISMANTLE5 · 2014-08-02T12:43:10+00:00

It's honestly a superfluous move: it brings no benefit to your game but can hinder it: its very possible that you come across as too shy as to make your intentions clear.

Mixing up alpha game with beta game can work for post-wall women (as theyre now searching for more betabux). But assuming we're just dealing with young girls, then this confusion game you've described is just going to look weak.

Title	Confusion game?
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Upvotes	10
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Date	August 2, 2014 11:02 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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