My father isn't particularly "alpha" anymore and recently my mother has been pushing him around a bit and it's fucking depressing. But that's fine I'm moving out soon and my relationship with them isn't too great anyway. Which is ok because I'm fairly independent anyway.

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But she tries to do the same shit to me to get me to conform and do whatever she says but it scares me that I might go down the same road as my father. It's to the point where I feel like she 'shit tests' me. She locks me outside after work constantly. I don't get dinner ever. She steals my clothes and my underwear (seriously), and sometimes hides the groceries that I buy. Its almost as if she's punishing me for not conforming but I know that if I do I'll go down the same road as my father.

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How do I deal with this?