More than likely a stupid ass question but I just recently started applying trp into my daily life and my question is, should conversation with women be serious (shit you talk with your bros about, job troubles, college, shit like that) or more playful (recently I've just been fucking around in conversation with various women I know and have been told I'm "hilarious" and only recently realised I know little to nothing about these women, don't know if it's a good or bad thing) ?

Most of these women are mutual friends of my sisters and when they speak with her it's more of a serious conversation (omg did you see this new perfume, I would love to visit blahblah one day, how's your job? Etc) Honestly not looking to fuck right now, as I'm not where I want to be both mentally and physically (again, getting there) so I mostly just speak with them to amuse myself, so any advice about just fucking them isn't what I'm looking for.

Apologies if this is a retarded ass question.