I'm in a LTR but I (and only I ) have leeway to play. One rule is I can't play at home.

Couple weeks ago I met a chick online that said she's in an open marriage. FWIW, I believe her.

We met for coffee and start making out within 5 minutes. I get us a room and we have fun. She wants to meet again. She forgets her necklace when she leaves, so I take it with me. She messages me that she had fun, and asks whether I have the necklace. I say that I do.

A couple weeks later I message her:

Me: Hey, [Name], are you free to get together Thursday evening?

Her: Hi :) yes, I'd love to get together. When and where?

Me: As early as 6pm. Regarding location: could you arrange for that this time since I did last time?

So far, no response. I'm okay with that cause I was 50/50 on whether I was gonna contact her again anyway. My questions:

1) Could I have brought up having her get the room in a better way or at a better time?

2) I don't feel right not giving her the necklace back, even though it's not that expensive. What should I do about it?