I am very young (20). I am a virgin who has never dated girls before as I am more focused on the future. I have only experienced one sided love(frustrating oneitis) and obviously crushes towards classmates in my life. I am thinking of asking some girls out who I am pretty sure are attracted to me. I may be interested in casual dating, but the goal is to find a high value girl that likes me back as I stay in a country which has very very low divorce rate and where many women show loyalty and most lose virginity only after marriage. What must be my criteria for selection for LTR (like should show no redflags, high value, initial attraction) ? Is love just a oneitis from both parties ? tl;dr Difference in Love vs Oneitis? is crush just an initial stage for both?