I'm new to this. How does someone get past a really shit reputation?

When I say shit I mean shit. As in depressed, suicidal, crying drunk. Desperate for girls. Beta in every way shape and form.

I'm in college and that was me. Finally started getting my life together, lifting, playing an instrument, working on my appearance.

But I dread going back to school in the fall. Should I just transfer? I know I can get girls there, I'm just curious if there's any point in trying to mend this shitty reputation.

Follow-up question. If I do transfer, how will I know that it's a good time? As in I won't just fuck up my reputation at wherever I transfer?