I'm at a loss on what might be the most ideal way to handle these things; not specifically but in a "call out the behavior immediately" or "let it go and get the lay" way.

Example 1: A Muslim girl came over for the second time that denied my advances again and again playing the shy, innocent game and wouldn't even kiss. We met before and she gave up head and had no problems getting intimate. She was in bra and panties on my bed and after hanging out a few hours I just felt it wasn't going anywhere, plus she has to sneak around her parents to come here so our time was limited. I live in a Middle East country so the traditional ones do exist here, but I still assume AWALT. I did all the necessary escalation and push-pull techniques that worked with her taking off my clothes a few times after I re-dress and check my phone. It really seems to be too much effort for what it's worth, and like Rollo says when they make you wait it is never worth it. When she was laying there in panties she showed me a video saved of her ass, which was great, which then showed her ex grabbing and playing with it. This only came about after she said "I want to show you a video" This coupled with calling my dick small a few different times "compared to online videos [porn]" (which is I was soft, this has seemingly been lost in translation. I know you're rolling eyes but I'm 6.5" perfectly normal.) I told her it's time to go and get her stuff. She played the angry game really well for a while and told me how I'm the one jealous and angry. I just said I was not (she knows I game other girls) and I was disappointed she disrespected me by doing that. Unless you're going to give up the ass I'm wasting my time and you're cucking me out showing me old videos with your ex. The whole ride out she apologized and was frustrated with herself, apparently. This is where I feel standing your ground can be beneficial because the polarization from being this guy trying to get into your pants to "get out of my house" is something they've never dealt with before.

Example 2: Plate keeps playing the long con in turning down my request to nut on her face (gauging her reaction, never explicitly asking permission). It seems I need to just do it without even asking, but I feel I will get the groans and she will be totally reluctant about it, which ruins it for me. She had no problem telling me how the last time she got cum on her face it was a total accident and I've told her before that in coming to see me she needs to be open to anything and immerse herself in the experience. Not a pick-and-choose a la carte, I like to think I play a dominant role and maybe it's my fault for even bringing it up without just doing it. We do some more risky stuff like rape roleplay. After hearing all this I was pretty much ready to go about my day so I walked her out. This time when I was asked if I was upset I just said no I'm fine and let her go on her way.

My question is this: when you're in a scenario you feel you're being disrespected or wronged, do you always "keep it real" because of your (hopeful) abundance mentality or not say anything at all and go about trying to fuck her? I think while the first option is ideal, maybe you five into what someone else thinks or says too much, while the second is not caring and just getting the lay. They are both a double-edged sword. I'd like to think I have standards but maybe in some occasions it seems it's enough to just forget about it and enjoy my turn.

Look forward to hearing your opinions.