Ran into some LMR last night with this girl. Escalated things well, she was really into it and when i tried to escalate to sex her response was "I don't know".

It seemed pretty clear to me that she was nervous about going all the way, so i backed off slightly then tried again later, while trying to agree and amplify. She never gave a true hard no at this point, but the beta/rape accusation fearing man in me decided not to pursue.

She never slowed my kino down but hesitates in dropping her pants. I have the feeling she is a virgin but didn't really want to ask that at the time and get into some deep talk. Any ideas on how to navigate this LMR if she is? Thoughts on why it's coming up if she isn't a virgin?