quick background: girl ( she’s a good 7 or 8) I have been friends with for years. Last time she came to my city we had a good time and hooked up. Figured I’d invite her to my bro’s wedding as my +1. Kill 2 birds with one stone, have her come see me hook up and plus have a date for the wedding. When calling to confirm she said she still wants to come but is talking to someone and wants to be respectful aka no sleeping together. Now she is hounding me to get an answer if she should come. On the fence about what to tell her.... dont want to seem butt hurt but also don’t want to waste the energy if she not going to give it up...