I know you guys are going to tear into me, and I am cool with that, but my mindset is very far away from where it was then.

In October to January 17/18 my girl begun acting different. We had several disasters hit us such as our car got stolen in the middle of nowhere on a vacation and my business was not making as much money.

She begun hanging out or texting at the time a short / fat / single mom type who from the texts I read was leading her to believe I was the name of her distance despite us having three kids.

In November we got in a big fight she told me to leave and I didn't come back for a week. Going through her phone history I saw she had checked her phobe for bloggers and multiple nights at 3 to 4 am took good looling photos dressed up of herself.

I moved back in and her behavior became more disrespectful (kill the puppy) and the first day back she left from 4 to 11. This became her new thing leave Friday Saturday to fix this girls house up supposedly. Around Christmas she was gone 4 to 5 days to work on presents at her moms.

Something felt off though and I started mirroring her, if she told me she was leaving I woukd dress to the gills and leave.

She begun asking if I was having an affair.

In late January she told me she was pregnant, curled up on couch to cry and later that day made plans to meet with fat friend next day (the odd part was she asked me if it was ok to shower wth)

At this point i told her all of this was affecting me and she screamed in my face to leave, so I did.

Its been six months since then.

During that time I lived in a cemetery for three months, she sold all of my clothes, bike, jewelry, tried ruining my business, harassed all my business social media, tried to get a restraining order when I hadn't seen her in three months and told everyone the reason I left was from her not wanting to be abused.

She never contacts me about being pregnant besides one time sent ultrasound photos when she needed me to do something for her and I refused.

After a few comments ill post what I did to find truth