So I have this plate who I have been seeing for a while now and I keep it pretty distant with her never once have I told her or implied through my actions that she is the only one I see. We only have sex if we are both at a party and I take her home after. I never ask her over, take her out or hang out with her. We are in the same friendship group bit that's the furthest extent that my non sexual attention goes with her. A couple of times after sex she has said pretty basic stuff like "why don't we hang out more" and I pass pretty easy but this most recent time we hooked up we were both pretty drunk and a little high so when she brought up commitment talk it was a bit more overt than usual. She said things like "you're so on and off with me", "you're an asshole", "you're unfair" basically she was asking why I am not easy to pin down/asked her for commitment/told her my feelings. As I said before because I was more intoxicated than usual I knew that if I tried to talk a lot that I would just dog myself into a very large whole so instead I just looked at her and tried to change the subject which didn't work well because she said "you're trying to change the subject again". She asked again and I calmly said "now is not the time to talk about this" she said "when then?" And I ignored. She kept cuddling me but looked at me every now and again as if expecting an awnser. I then tried treating her like a little girl and when she said I was an asshole again I hugged her and said "you're right, I know." She then after a couple of minuets of me not giving her any speach said that she should go then but she was saying it in a way where she was wanting me to tell her to stay. I simply said "ok no worries". When she got ready to leave she wasn't cold to me and when I kissed her good bye she said "I still think you an asshole" to which I replied "I know". She sent me a good night message 10 mins later.

Sorry for the long post. Seems like it didn't go as bad as it could have. Should I expect this plate to break soon? Did I pass this comfort/shit test or have I just bought myself a little more time? Cheers.