I've mostly texted for logistics, with some sexual banter after details were settled. In a couple of instances, I've ran into girls who seemed interested, then flaking and dropping off (1st or 2nd date flakes). Some I have k-closed on the first date, but encountered LMR when I pushed for sex.

Particularly for these LMR girls, am I triggering ASD with sexual humor texts (when setting up 2nd date) or am I losing her to some other guy in these situations? How can I diagnose and improve on this?